There's a lot of wisdom in the Igbo tradition, in the Nigerian-African tradition.
There's this song that I've not been able to get out of my head, even to this day.
I sing it to myself all the time, it goes like this.
So, and he's trying to say, well, you're not going to complain.
You're not going to give it to somebody else.
Yes, you're not going to reject it.
So, and then he would say,
who was that kubara in the back?
You know, like, your work breaks the bank, or you know, where's the fortune before you.